All about a Happy Marriage Part 3

If you want a happy marriage, you cannot attack your partner. This will make the marriage not so happy in the end. The couple needs to approach each other bringing up issues, not each others personality traits. Again, this will cause emotional scars and fights that could be well avoided and should be avoided. When approaching your partner, specific times, area, and concrete details about the issue should be brought up. You don’t want your partner feeling threatened or cornered, so remember to confront them with lack of threat.

Should an argument escalate, try to stay aware of your situation and if things escalade quickly, then take a small moment to break and get your posture back. Do not take a long break, a couple of minutes should be fine, any break that turns in a long winded break may end up causing the other partner to feel belittled and like you may be dismissing how they feel altogether. In essence, this is shooting down the mutual respect, and again, emotions get attacked and scars are made.  

Whatever you do, do not initiate an argument at night time. The other partner may be tired and this will spark and quickly escalate the argument. You have to wait until the right time, do not argument when the kids are around, or in public; be mature and hold the mutual respect. Stay calm and remember, this is a vital part to a happy marriage.

Try not to attack your partner directly. The above items focus on that, but another great tool to get familiar with is using the word “I” instead of “You.” What this does is keeps from attacking the personality and the characteristics of your partner. Something that is incredibly important in a happy relationship is how each partner feels about particular behaviors. Coming to the argument or discussion using words like “you” will attack that aspect of the relationship and this is not at all healthy to the relationship. If you can accomplish the above items consistently, then you will indeed experience a happy marriage.

This wraps up a 3 part article discussing what needs to happen for a happy marriage to take place. Good luck with your partner and we here at helpmyrelationship.net hope that everything works out.

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