Controlling Relationship

A controlling relationship is based on lack of self image. How can that be so? Well, let’s think about it like this. You have a boyfriend or girlfriend that is afraid of losing their partner, as a result, they becoming controlling. They want to know when and where their partner is somewhere. The partner, however, is afraid to lose their boyfriend or girlfriend as well. As a result, they let the significant other continue with the controlling. This is the case 100% of the time. After a period has passed, a controlling relationship can turn into an abusive relationship. What the majority of people do not understand is that a controlling relationship starts from the beginning.

This unhealthy version of a relationship can happen from either gender. It’s always been easier to spot with men because of how the male deals with it. The women, however; are not so easy to spot but it’s also natural because angry women in a home are somewhat typical. After all, women tend to take over all of the jobs at home. How can we spot this? Well, if you decide to cancel on your partner and go hang out with your friends, or just ignore your partner, expect an argument in the making or something of that sort. If you have plans to do something without your partner, you do them, and a fight still takes place, something is wrong. In this situation, expect a controlling relationship. Being clingy also promotes a controlling relationship.

Clingy could be defined as, attached at the hip, or has to always be with the other. Let’s put this into an example, if you come home a good bit later than normal, expect caution and in some cases, anger. If you come home 10 minutes late due to traffic or a train, and a fight breaks out, expect a controlling relationship.

It is normal to want to be taken care of, but there is line that should not be crossed that, in often times, gets crossed. In the case that you experience a controlling relationship, action should be done. If not, you may be facing potential for an abusive relationship. If this is a problem, sit your partner down, and have a gentle talk and work out the problems. If nothing gets accomplished, then you need to find counseling to get something accomplished. A controlling relationship can destroy what you guys find to very important and close. Take the steps needed to fix the problems.

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