Healthy Relationships
Remember back in high school when you met the person of your dreams? Yes, the one that had you stumbling over your words; weak in
the knees, and all light headed and like butterflies lived in your belly? Healthy Relationships tend to be built around these certain
feelings, or that is what so many individuals seem to think. What happened when you finally got the courage to ask this person out? In my
experience, it went like this; she said yes, I knew right then we would get married. Two weeks later, this individual dumped me for my best
friend. We could call that the high school story of my life that seems to follow the footsteps of so many people. Obviously, I was not part
of a healthy relationship; I was part of a “she makes me smile” relationship which after two weeks, I was no longer smiling. That brings us
to the question then of, what are healthy relationships in need of to be considered, healthy and successful?
There are certain qualities in which a relationship needs to be considered healthy, sorry guys; the term hot will not be listed
here. The qualities which
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For Healthy Relationships, we should look for the following:
- Excellent Communication – You guys have to talk on a daily basis. Talk about what is going on in each other’s lives. What
should be done in the rare case that there isn’t anything to be talked about? Like I stated in a different article, go and be
proactive, this will make for conversation. Your partner cares about what is going on in your life; let them in on the stressful things
that make you want to kick a hole in the wall. Do whatever it takes to keep communicating.
- Support Each Other – Yes, I said it, don’t be selfish. As a matter of fact, you have a responsibility to be selfless. You have
a duty to be there for your partner whether you really want to be or not. If something were to happen to a family member or perhaps you
lost your job, guess what? You have a partner right there waiting to help out in any possible way.
- Keep on Being Yourself – So many couples today tend to conform to one another. To an extent, that is okay to do, but do not
lose out on who you are. Your partner pursued a relationship with you and who are you, not because of who you used to be.
- Healthy Relationships need Trust – A successful relationship is built around two main key ideas. Those are commitment, and
trust. If you cannot trust your partner then you cannot be successful in the journey that you two may take. You have to be able to
trust your partner at all cost.
- Healthy Relationships also need Honesty – How can you be trusted if you are not honest? Be honest with your partner, no matter
the situation. If you respect and honor your partner like you should, then you should not be placing yourself in situations that would
suggest lying. Be honest, no matter the situation.
So what do healthy relationships consist of? As noted, you must be able to communicate, you have to be supportive no matter the
cost; be yourself, be able trust and in return, be honest. We could throw a few more in the list and say be fair, not selfish, and have a
mutual respect. If respect is not a part of the relationship, then why exactly is a relationship being pursued?
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Are you looking to get more in depth with your relationship and really get to know your partner?
 If your answer to the above question is yes, then I strongly recommend that you check out 1000 Questions for Couples
How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of
foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.
An estimated 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right
questions.
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