New Relationship Rules | Part 1

Let’s begin by listing what a new relationship is not meant to be:

·         Sex

·         Physical Attraction Only

·         Selfishness

·         Based Around One Partner

·         A Routine

·         Lack Of Communication

The list could be endless, but these are the top reasons that new relationships just do not work out. There is one reason that individuals should look to date and that is because they see potential in another individual that may lead to a marriage. Any reason outside of that are what we call selfish, heartless, and quite frankly, an emotional attack to the other party. If you are just looking for a good time, then a relationship is not at all what you want to pursue. 

When two individuals pursue a brand new relationship, 10 times out of 10, there is a huge spark. The partners spend a large amount time together, and let’s face it; it is hard to keep from touching, flirting, kissing, etc. That is awesome to have in a relationship, but know that this is not what will make the relationship successful. While no individual can argue that sex is bad, it can ruin a relationship, if that is what the relationship is built around. Think of it like this, you have an awesome car that everyone finds attractive and just cannot keep their eyes off of it. They just have to look at it, get close to it, and well, touch it. But the problem comes when you go to crank your car. Nothing happens; it just sits there and looks pretty. Pop the hood and take a look under it, notice that there is no engine, or anything that the car needs to run properly. Now all the sudden, you can’t possible get anything else accomplished with the car because it won’t move. You are stuck in one position and it will not take long before you and your car just cannot work anymore. Sex is the same way, it cannot be the center point of a relationship, or the relationship will fail.

To continue the series, click here and we will move on to a New Relationship – Selfishness and Out of Focus

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