New Relationship Rules | Part 3

This is the last series of New Relationship Rules. Click here to view the first article in this series.

New Relationship RulesSo far, we have covered why a new relationship is not based around sex, physical attraction, selfishness, and based solely around one partner. The third and last part of this series will deal with the final aspects of what a new relationship is not; a routine, and a lack of communication.

A new relationship will fail if a routine is put into place. What do I mean by that? Well, If you have ever been in a relationship for more than a year, sometimes it does not take a year to happen, but you will start to notice that the individuals began to form a routine. For example, two people that live about 45 minutes away from each other have been dating for about a year. Sure, it is difficult to see each other on week days so they just settle for weekends. How is this handled? Well, they may talk once or twice on week days, but the weekend comes and the boyfriend travels to the girlfriend’s house where he stays the weekend. At first, they go out and do stuff and it is a lot of fun for the both of them.

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After a year, however, they do not do anything. The routine has been established, they barely talk in the week, he goes there on weekends, they do absolutely nothing new, and the relationship gets boring. When a relationship gets boring, it is in danger of failing. Do not let your new relationship establish a certain routine; you guys need to work on changing things up and try to throw something fresh in every so often. The last thing you want to experience is a couple getting bored with each other; that is both scary, and dangerous.

You cannot have a lack of communication anywhere in your new relationship. This is the single most important thing that is needed for a relationship to work. You have to have communication established and you guys have to talk daily. Sometimes, you may find that there is not much to talk about. So, what do you to fix that? Go out and find something fun to do. I promise this will make for some kind of conversation. If you guys lack in communication, you have nothing. Any relationship should be built around communication, and trust. Communication is the key; how can you establish trust if you guys cannot talk daily about what is going on in each other’s lives? You can’t. Do not let a new relationship lack in communication, it will fail, and both parties will experience a certain hurt that is hard to fix.

As stated above, a relationship is built around communication and trust. It cannot be centered on sex, physical attraction, selfishness, based around one partner, a routine, or a lack of communication. If you guys can manage to focus on communication and trust, then everything else will fall into place where and when it should fall into place. Being intimate is not a result of your flesh, it is not selfish, but instead, it is love. It is a result of communication and trust. So, what should you look for in a new relationship? It is simple; look for communication, and trust.

 

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